Ты не слушаешь. Что мы упускаем, разучившись слушать, и как это исправить - Кейт Мёрфи

135, https://doi. org/10.1016/j. tics. 2004.01.008; May Gratier and Gisèle Apter–Danon, “The Improvised Musicality of Belonging: Repetition and Variation in Mother–Infant Vocal Interaction,” in Communicative Musicality: Exploring the Basis of Human Companionship, ed. Stephen Malloch and Colwyn Trevarthen (New York: Oxford University Press, 2009), 301–327; Ana Fló, Perrine Brusini, Francesco Macagno, Marina Nespor, Jacques Mehler, and Alissa L. Ferry, “Newborns Are Sensitive to Multiple Cues for Word Segmentation in Continuous Speech,” Developmental Science (2019): e12802, https://doi.org/10.1111/desc. 12802.

34 …уже через шестнадцать недель после зачатия – Viola Marx and Emese Nagy, “Fetal Behavioural Responses to Maternal Voice and Touch,” PLOS One 10, no. 6 (2015): eO129118, https://doi. org/10.1371/journal.pone. 0129118; “Fetal Development: The 2nd Trimester,” Mayo Clinic, https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/pregnancy-week-by-week/in-depth/fetal-development/art-20046151.

35 …отличать речь от других звуков – Eino Partanen, Teija Kujala, Risto Näätänen, Auli Liitola, Anke Sambeth, and Minna Huotilainen, “Learning– Induced Neural Plasticity of Speech Processing Before Birth,” PNAS 110, no. 7 (2013), https:// doi.org /10.1073/pnas.302159110.

36 …до самого конца сохраняют слух и осязание – James Hallenbeck, Palliative Care Perspectives (New York: Oxford University Press, 2003), 220.

37 …обладают меньшей способностью к сочувствию и сопереживанию – Anouk P. Netten, Carolien Rieffe, Stephanie C. P. M. Theunissen, Wim Soede, Evelien Dirks, Jeroen J. Briaire, and Johan H. M. Frijns, “Low Empathy in Deaf and Hard of Hearing (Pre) Adolescents Compared to Normal Hearing Controls,” PLOS One 10, no. 4 (2015): e0124102, https://doi.org/10.1371/journal. pone. 0124102.

38 Глухота представляет собой гораздо большее несчастье – Diane Ackerman, A Natural History of the Senses (New York: Vintage Books, 1991), 191.

39 Ури Хассон изучил сканирования функциональной магнитно-резонансной томографии – A. Zadbood, J. Chen, Y. C. Leong, K. A. Norman, and U. Hasson, “How We Transmit Memories to Other Brains: Constructing Shared Neural Representations Via Communication,” Cerebral Cortex 27, no. 10 (2017): 4988–5000, https://doi.org/10. 1093/cercor/bhx202. A subsequent study Carolyn Parkinson, Adam M. Kleinbaum, and Thalia Wheatley, “Similar Neural Responses Predict Friendship,” Nature Communications 9, no. 332 (2018), https:// doi.org/10.1038/s41467–017–02722– 7.

40 …синхронное мышление, развившееся между психологами Даниелем Канеманом и Амосом Тверски – Michael Lewis, The Undoing Project (New York: W. W. Norton, 2017).

41 …как будто они ожидали этого – Ibid., 238.

42 …один ум на двоих — Ibid., 182.

43 Никакая психологическая концепция не описывает это лучше, чем теория привязанности – Inge Bretheron, “The Origins of Attachment Theory: John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth,” Developmental Psychology 28, no. 5 (1992): 759–775, http://dx.doi.org/10.1037/0012–1649.28.5.759; Mary D. Salter Ainsworth, Mary C. Blehar, Everett Waters, and Sally N. Wall, Patterns of Attachment: A Psychological Study of the Strange Situation (New York: Psychology Press, 2015); John Bowlby, A Secure Base: Parent-Child Attachment and Healthy Human Development (New York: Basic Books, 1988); Kent Hoffman, Glen Cooper, Bert Powell, and Christine M. Benton, Raising a Secure Child: How Circle of Security Parenting Can Help You Nurture Your Child’s Attachment, Emotional Resilience, and Freedom to Explore (New York: Guilford Press, 2017); Howard Steele and Miriam Steele, Handbook of Attachment– Based Interventions (New York: Guilford Press, 2017); Jude Cassidy, Handbook of Attachment: Theory, Research, and Clinical Applications, 3rd ed. (New York: Guilford Press, 2018); Amir Levine and Rachel Heller, Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find– And Keep– Love (New York: Tarcher Perigee, 2011).

44 …подтверждена несколькими опубликованными исследованиями – Teresa Lind, Kristin Bernard, Emily Ross, and Mary Dozier, “Intervention Effects on Negative Affect of CPSReferred Children: Results of a Randomized Clinical Trial,” Child Abuse & Neglect 38, no.9 (2014): 1459–1467, https://doi. org/10.1016/j. chiabu. 2014.04.004; Anne P. Murphy, Howard Steele, Jordan Bate, Adella Nikitiades, Brooke Allman, Karen A. Bonuck, Paul Meissner, and Miriam Steele, “Group Attachment– Based Intervention: Trauma– Informed Care for Families with Adverse Childhood Experiences,” Family and Community Health 38, no. 3 (2015): 268–279, https://doi. org/10.1097/FCH. 0000000000000074; Kristin Bernard, Mary Dozier, Johanna Bick, Erin Lewis–Morrarty, Oliver Lindhiem, and Elizabeth Carlson, “Enhancing Attachment Organization Among Maltreated Children: Results of a Randomized Clinical Trial,” Child Development 83, no. 2 (2012): 623–636, https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1467–8624. 2011. 01712.x.

45 Причина одиночества и отчужденности от общества… – Lesley Caldwell and Helen Taylor Robinson, eds., The Collected Works of D. W. Winnicott, vol. 6 (New York: Oxford University Press, 2017), 529.

46 …ласка без прикосновения – Amir Amedi, Gilad Jacobson, Talma Hendler, Rafael Malach, and Ehud Zohary, “Convergence of Visual and Tactile Shape Processing in the Human Lateral Occipital Complex,” Cerebral Cortex 12, no. 11 (2002): 1202–1212, https://doi.org/10.1093/cercor/12.11.1202; Gary Chapman, The 5 Love Languages (Chicago, IL: Northfield Publishing, 1992), 107–118; Lisbeth Lipari, Listening, Thinking, Being: Toward an Ethics of Attunement (University Park, PA: Pennsylvania State University Press, 2014), 9.

Глава 3. Слушайте любопытство: что мы можем узнать у малышей

47 Перелистайте трехтомную Международную энциклопедию межличностной коммуникации – Charles R. Berger and Michael E. Roloff, eds., The International Encyclopedia of Interpersonal Communication (Malden, MA: Wiley Blackwell, 2016), https://onlinelibrary.wiley. com/browse/book/10.1002 / 9781118540190 / title ? pageSize = 20&startPage = &alphabetRange = l. won’t even find listening Mark Knapp and John Daly, eds., The SAGE Handbook of Interpersonal Communication, 4th ed. (Thousand Oaks, CA: Sage, 2011), https://us. sagepub. com/en–us/nam/the–sage–handbook–of–interpersonal–communication/book234032.

48 Каждые несколько лет появляется новое. – Debra Worthington and Graham Bodie, “Defining Listening: A Historical, Theoretical, and Pragmatic Assessment,” in The Sourcebook of Listening Research: Methodology and Measures, ed. Debra Worthington and Graham Bodie (New York: Wiley– Blackwell, 2017), 4.

49 …более склонны к любопытству и открыты для новой информации – Mario Mikulincer, “Adult Attachment Style and Information Processing: Individual Differences in Curiosity and Cognitive Closure,” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 72, no. 5 (1997): 1217–1230, http://dx.doi.org/10.1037/0022-3514.72. 5.1217.

50 …была собранием интервью с людьми из всех слоев общества – Studs Terkel, Working: People Talk About What They Do All Day and How They Feel About What They Do (New York: Ballantine, 1989).

51 …настоящим было мое любопытство – Studs Terkel: Listening to America, directed by Eric Simonson (New York: