Ты не слушаешь. Что мы упускаем, разучившись слушать, и как это исправить - Кейт Мёрфи

Gyrus During Perceptual and Conceptual Self–Referential Thinking,” Open Neuroimaging Journal 6 (2012): 78– 89, https://doi.org/10.2174/1874440001206010078.taking the perspective of another Charles Fernyhough, The Voices Within (New York: Basic Books, 2016), 74.

161 …ассоциируется с более эффективным выполнением когнитивных задач – Tuija Aro, Anna– Maija Poikkeus, Marja– Leena Laakso, Asko Tolvanen, and Timo Ahonen, “Associations Between Private Speech, Behavioral Self–Regulation, and Cognitive Abilities,” International Journal of Behavioral Development 39, no. 6 (2014): 508– 518, https://doi.org/10.1177/0165025414556094; Ben Alderson–Day and Charles Fernyhough, “Inner Speech: Development, Cognitive Functions, Phenomenology, and Neurobiology,” Psychological Bulletin 141, no. 5 (2015): 931–965, http://dx.doi.org/10. 1037/bul0000021.

162 …в заботливом окружении – Douglas Behrend, Karl Rosengren, and Marion Perlmutter, “The Relation Between Private Speech and Parental Interactive Style,” in Private Speech: From Social Interaction to Self–Regulation, ed. Rafael Diaz and Laura Berk (Hillsdale, NJ: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates, 1992), 85–100.

163 …в бедных семьях – Laura Berk and Ruth Garvin, “Development of Private Speech Among Low– Income Appalachian Children,” Developmental Psychology 20, no. 2 (1984): 271– 286, http://dx.doi.org/10.1037/0012–1649.20.2.271. low– income families Laura Berk, “Development of Private Speech Among Preschool Children,” Early Child Development and Care 24, no. 1– 2 (1986): 113–136, https://doi.org/10.1080/0300443860240107.

164 …человек с критическим внутренним голосом слышит чужие слова совсем по-другому – Xing Tian, Nai Ding, Xiangbin Teng, Fan Bai, and David Poeppel, “Imagined Speech Influences Perceived L oudness of Sound,” Nature Human Behavior 2, no. 3 (2018): 225–234, https://doi.org/10.1038/s41562– 018– 0305–8.

165 …мы мысленно озвучиваем слова – Marianne Abramson and Stephen D. Goldinger, “What the Reader’s Eye Tells the Mind’s Ear: Silent Reading Activates Inner Speech,” Perception & Psychophysics 59, no. 7 (1997): 1059–1068, https://doi.org/10.3758/BF03205520. pace consistent with the speech Jessica Alexander and Lynne Nygaard, “Reading Voices and Hearing Text: Talker–Specific Auditory Imagery in Reading,” Journal of Experimental Psychology: Human Perception and Performance 34, no. 2 (2008): 446–459, http://dx.doi.org/10.1037/0096–1523. 34. 2. 446.

166 …более активны при чтении прямой речи по сравнению косвенной. – Bo Yao, Pascal Belin, and Christophe Scheepers, “Silent Reading of Direct versus Indirect Speech Activates Voiceselective Areas in the Auditory Cortex,” Journal of Cognitive Neuroscience 23, no. 10 (October 2011): 3146–3152, https://doi. org/10.1162/jocn a 00022. teamed up with The Guardian Ben Alderson–Day, Marco Bernini, and Charles Fernyhough, “Uncharted Features and Dynamics of Reading: Voices, Characters, and Crossing of Experiences,” Consciousness and Cognition 49 (2017): 98–109, https://doi. org/10.1016/j.concog. 2017.01.003.

167 …объединились с газетой Guardian — Ben Alderson–Day, Marco Bernini, and Charles Fernyhough, “Uncharted Features and Dynamics of Reading: Voices, Characters, and Crossing of Experiences,” Consciousness and Cognition 49 (2017): 98–109, https://doi.org/10.1016/j.concog. 2017.01.003.

168 Я называю это моим утренним театром… – Rob Couteau, “The Romance of Places: An Interview with Ray Bradbury,” in Conversations with Ray Bradbury, ed. Steven L. Aggelis (Jackson: University Press of Mississippi, 2004), 122.

169 В одном эксперименте 64% мужчин и 15% женщин предпочитали дергать себя за волосы или хлопать по щекам – Timothy Wilson, David Reinhard, Erin C. Westgate, Daniel T. Gilbert, Nicole Ellerbeck, Cheryl Hahn, and Casey L. Brown, “Just Think: The Challenges of the Disengaged Mind,” Science 345, no. 6 (2014): 75–77, https://doi.org/10.1126/science.1250830.

170 Я спорю с собой – James Gleik, Genius: The Life and Science of Richard Feynman (New York: Pantheon, 1992), 230.

171 …сравнивая одно с другим, мы достигаем некоторого прогресса в понимании и оценке того, где мы находимся и что собой представляем – The Pleasure of Finding Things Out, ed. Jeffrey Robbins (Cambridge, MA: Perseus Books, 1999), 110.

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172 …я умнейшая женщина в Англии – Dick Leonard, The Great Rivalry: Gladstone and Disraeli (London: I. B. Tauris, 2013), 202–203; “Stanley Weintraub: Disraeli: A Biography,” C– SPAN video, 58:56, February 6, 1994, https://www.c–span.org/video/? 54339–1/disraeli–biography.

173 …ангела в глыбе мрамора – “Angels in the Marble?,” Economist, September 6, 2001, https://www. economist.com/united–states/2001/09/06/angels–in–the–marble. hundred informal dinner conversations Charles Derber, The Pursuit of Attention (New York: Oxford University Press, 2000).

174 …как человек, знакомый с положением дел изнутри – Howard Becker, Outsiders: Studies in the Sociology of Deviance (New York: Free Press, 2018).

175 …исследовательские методы Беккера являются необходимым чтением – Adam Gopnik, “The Outside Game,” New Yorker, January 5, 2015, https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2015/01/12/outside–game.

176 …более открытыми и сочувственными слушателями – Leonardo Christov-Moore, Elizabeth Simpson, Gino Coudй, Kristina Grigaityte, Marco Iacobonia, and Pier Ferrari, “Empathy: Gender Effects in Brain and Behavior,” Neuroscience & Biobehavioral Reviews 46, no. 4 (2014): 604–627, https://doi.org/10.1016/j.neubiorev.2014.09.001.

177 …они больше сосредоточиваются – David Geary, “Sexual Selection and Human Vulnerability,” in Evolution of Vulnerability (San Diego: Academic Press, 2015), 11–39, https://doi.org/10.1016/B978–0–12–801562–9.09996–8; Debra Worthington and Margaret Fitch–Hauser, Listening: Processes, Functions and Competency (New York: Routledge, 2016), 32–34; Deborah Tannen, You Just Don’t Understand: Women and Men in Conversation (New York: HarperCollins, 1990).

178 …природой или воспитанием – Tara Chaplin and Amelia Aldao, “Gender Differences in Emotion Expression in Children: A Meta–Analytic Review,” Psychological Bulletin 139, no. 4 (2013): 735–765, https://doi.org/10.1037/a0030737.

179 …даже у маленьких девочек… – Agneta Fischer, Gender and Emotion: Social Psychological Perspectives (Cambridge: Cambridge University Press, 2000).

180 …представляет собой крайнюю разновидность «мужского мозга» – Agneta Fischer, Gender and Emotion: Social Psychological Perspectives (Cambridge: Cambridge University Press, 2000).

181 …воспринимаются гораздо громче – Mélanie Aeschlimann, Jean– François Knebel, Micah M. Murray, and Stephanie Clarke, “Emotional Pre – Eminence of Human Vocalizations,” Brain Topography 20, no. 4 (2008): 239–248, https://doi.org/10.1007/s10548-008-0051-8.

182 …были в пять раз сильнее расстроены… – Andrew G. Miner, Theresa M. Glomb, and Charles Hulin, “Experience Sampling Mood and Its Correlates at Work,” Journal of Occupational and Organizational Psychology 78 (2005): 171–193, https://doi.org/10.1348/096317905X40105.

183 …чтобы взаимоотношения были успешными… – Kyle Benson, “The Magic Relationship Ratio, According to Science,” Gottman Institute, October 4, 2017, https://www.gottman.com/blog/the–magic–relationship–ratio–according–science/.

184 …другой вид реакции переноса — Kelsey Crowe and Emily McDowell, There Is No Good Card for This: What To Do and Say When Life is